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Oct302011

Fun with #OkCupid: The truth about one night stands (HE'S BACK!!)

| DateSunday, October 30, 2011 at 11:03PM | Comment5 Comments | |

This guy, man ... he is incredibly persistent ... and I'm not gonna lie, it's kinda hot.

So, a few weeks back, I got hit up on OKC by this dude asking strictly for a fuck. And not in the normal, hey baby - nice shoes wanna fuck kinda way ... this was actually hot, and detailed. Read! 

 

I wasn't at all offended, and sexually speaking I'm submissive - so it was actually a fit.

Read more of my response here.

From there, I was genuinely intrigued with what in me seemed submissive, so I asked him! He then broke me down, and did a DAMN good job of it! (Read more here) 

I never responded back, I just posted on it ... and left it out there in the universe. Then, last week - he actually emailed me back!!! 

THENNNNN TODAY I got ANOTHER email ... 

I don't know what to do!!! I am at a moment of weakness. I've now given up casual sex, and have actually gotten over the "hump" of my dry spell (8th grade make out sessions TOTALLY help with that) - but I'm kinda turned on by this. I've never actually been dominated sexually but it is a HUGE fantasy of mine. Is there a special one off to get off on your sexual bucket list? Nerds!! I need help with this one. I'm genuinely genuinely genuinely trying to better myself, and better the dude energy that comes into my life ... but AHHH!!! This could be fun. Or do I just wait for a great guy to come along naturally and then ask him to tie me up and do naughty naughty things to me. 

#decisionsdecisions

click here to read what happens next

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Reader Comments (5)

Speaking of bucket lists, here's another one to add:
http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2011/10/faa_approves_skydiving_sex.html

October 30, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterReader1

OMG OMG OMG AMAZING!!

October 30, 2011 | Registered CommenterTalk Nerdy To Me Lover

So how's next weekend looking for some skydiving fun? (:

October 31, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterReader1

I say ask "Spirit Ears" for some extra ears, wait for the right person, and pu tthose puppies (pun intended) to use! I'm not sure that Spirit Ears would use that as their new marketing campaign... but it'd probably be smoother on your hands than rope :)

October 31, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterCouch Surfing Ori

Sorry I disappeared on you like that back then. We totally should have gotten together. :-)
Hope you are great!

October 26, 2015 | Unregistered CommenterDjarrster

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