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Wednesday
Dec282011

#Question: Do you kiss a guy after you uh, do, um - you know

Question: I'm currently watching Sex and the City, and it's the one where Carrie walks in on Samantha giving the delivery dude head ... flash forward to 2:52

 

Flash forward to a few days later, and the girls are sitting around having lunch after talking about going down on someone and kissing. Miranda wasn't a fan of a dude going down on her and then him kissing her, but when Samantha started talking about it Carrie interrupted her judging her choice of blow. I've seen this episode 100 times, and I've ALWAYS wondered, do dudes really mind when a chick kisses them after a BJ?

 

I'm super super super sensitive about that with guys. I will ABSOLUTELY kiss a dude after he's gone down on me, I personally find it super hot - but do guys like it?

I wasn't sure, so I popped over to Reddit and was greeted with, of course, a menagerie of answers ... (see the results here) - but I'm still confused.

Are guys cool with it or not?

I air on the side of caution and will kiss their neck or some other equally cuddly and seductive place, but I don't go in for the mouth. Does anyone else? Is that weird? Here's my dick but don't expect me to kiss you after. ewe.

#confused

Reader Comments (8)

Personally... Don't mind...
LOL - Could overshare on that one... But won't :-)

December 28, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterJules Wilko

over share! over share! over share!

December 28, 2011 | Registered CommenterTalk Nerdy To Me Lover

I don't mind it but why don't you just ask him? Nothing wrong with asking.

December 28, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterJeff Turner

LOL... For me, I don't mind... at all... Turn on if she tastes herself on me, turn on if I taste me on / in her... *ahem*...

December 28, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterJules Wilko

I don't mind tasting myself as long as it isn't snowballing! It is a huge turn on if a girl goes down on me after sex. HUGE.

December 28, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterBrandonComedy

^ Haha! Brandon

December 28, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterAJonesPUA

I'm probably one of the few males out that actually doesn't get much enjoyment from head. I truly would rather be giving than receiving. No bs to woo the ladies either. I seriously don't get off on getting head. However, hearing her scream or grabbing my hair while she twitches with pleasure...ahem...that's a different story.

December 28, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterMatt T

You know you can embed tweets into your posts (instead of just screen shots) w/ latest twitter refresh, would make your posts more interactive/relevant #NerdTip

December 28, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterMQ

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