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<editorsnote> Hi, I'm Jen Friel, and we here at TNTML examine the lives of nerds outside of the basements and into the social media, and dating world.  We have over 75 peeps that write about their life in real time. (Real nerds, real time, real deal.) Sit back, relax, and enjoy some of the stories!! </editorsnote>

 

 

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Tuesday
Dec272011

Happy Birthday @ZRDavis! 

DUDEESSS! We have a birthday in the house. Step on right up Mr. Zach!

I cannot say enough awesomeness about this kid. Not only did he just travel the Appalachian trail for the last 6 months, but he currently has west nile and is straight up one of the most passionate and raddest people ever.

For reals, superly duperly talented ... and BAHHHHH I'm gushing ... just grateful to have him around these parts.

Ready for your gift Zach?

Oh goodness that was ah-mazing.

But for reals Zach you are awesome and we appreciate you around these parts. Have a wonderful day and a wonderful year.

<3 @TNTML

Friday
Jul152011

Must.Download.Now: @spotify

DUDES!! I just downloaded @spotify ... and HOLY FUCKERIDY!!! You need to get up on this STAT!!!

Here's what it looks like ...

 

It pulls in your iTunes playlists, and if you connect it to Facebook you can browse all of your friends playlists as well. OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG I am geeking OUT!!!

Spotify just sent me a premium account as well, so I'm gonna download the mobile app.

THIS.THING.IS.NUTS!!!

DOWNLOAD NOW!!!

Click here to download

if it asks you for a code or invite just use mine: dgydZwL8RbapVUJD

Enjoy buddies!!

OMG OMG OMG OMG THIS IS THE GREATEST THING EVERRRR!!

#calmdownjen

 

PS. I feel like a super gnarly add on would be a chat feature. I not only wanna listen to music with my friends, but interact with them, and comment.

Food for thought!

JIIIGGGAAAAAAAAA omg omg omg omg I can't stop. This is the greatest thing EVERR!! Thank you, Spotify for the invites!! =)

Saturday
Feb192011

Fun with #OkCupid: Late night happy-hour freebie!

I met a human body chemist earlier this week. Super rad mofo, mama likes - for izzles. He's super hot by commercial standards of measurement, and a total newbie to OKC. I've asked him to send me some of his honest to goodness reactions on some of the chicks that he comes across. Nerds, meet exhibit A!

 

 

Ok so first of all, she begins her self summary with the fact that she is "looking for whatever I can get!" Not a great start - especially considering this is the portion of the profile where one summarizes themself. Did she not realize there is an entire section titled "what I'm looking for," where one can put "looking for whatever I can get!" Wow. Fail.
Next up, her profile says that she works at a bar where "the expected is never expected... if you get my drift..."
Ummm, no sorry I don't get your drift. Are we talking Patrick Swayze Roadhouse style redneck rampage, spontaneous breakout orgies, vampire stripper cocktail waitresses? You gotta be more specific here sweetheart. AAAAAAANNNNNDDD chase that with a slaughtered Forest Gump quote, mmmmm smooth.
 
Then she puts a final emphasis on her try-me-I'm-easy message by saying I should contact her if I think she's worth my time.
 
Ok, now, I'm not gonna lie, she's hot, so the guy in me is tempted to slam dunk this latenight happy hour freebie, but I don't know if I could make it through the 30 minutes of mind numbing conversation it would take to get her drunk enough. God I feel like an asshole right now, but come on, really? This one is too easy.
Alrite, Jen here - the human body chemist was right ... this one is TOO EASY! Babe, first off ... on the 6 things you can't live without, your NUMBER ONE ... your NUMBER ONE THING YOU CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT IS LIPGLOSS?!?!?! ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!?!?!?! LIP GLOSS!!
This chick is 23, not 13. Speechless. I am speechless.

 

Text: I spend a lot of time thinking about how much fun I want to have. Translation: Take me to Vegas, and I'll fuck you, your buddies, and even your buddies girlfriends.

Text: I'm really good at ummmm making someone smile ... especially in a time of need. Translation: I give good head.

What you're doing with your life ... you're in school after a long "subatical?" Go, get back to English class now, or at least a computer class and learn where the spell check is.

Bless this girls heart. She's beautiful, but wow - perfect prey. The tragic part about a chick like this though is that these are the ones that breed. For reals, smart people are smart enough to know what birth control is, or at least know how to google "how to control Z pregnancy." I weep for the future.

#saveusall

 

 

 
Monday
Nov222010

Exploring the Anti-Social Side of #SocialMedia

Looky looky what was just posted on our Facebook wall ....

Portland, Oregon (Per CNN) -- People walking by the floor-to-ceiling glass windows surrounding Cristin Norine could be excused for thinking that she is working in an office alone or lives in a ground-level apartment in dire need of drapes.

She does not look like a prisoner.

But for 30 days that's exactly what Norine is. Her "cell" is a large storefront that sat unrented for months until the owner decided to let artists use it as a gallery so it wouldn't look so empty.

Norine has moved in donated furniture, exercise equipment and a large-screen computer with a projector overhead so everyone walking by can see as she tweets, updates her Facebook page and Skypes.

During her stay no one comes in and Norine never goes outside. Her only contact with other people is through technology.

In that regard, Norine says she is not that different from anyone else.

"We think we are being social on these gadgets," she said. "And it can be a really great thing when people live in different states, but when you are at dinner or you are trying to have a conversation and you are being distracted by these other things. Or maybe you are just not going out as much because you are staying home and are online."

Usually a TV and photography production manager based in Los Angeles, California, Norine ended up in her own personal fishbowl in Portland after a chance meeting with Josh Elliott.

 

Elliott worked in photography in Oregon and the two realized they shared a similar curiosity about the effects that the barrage of new technologies are having on people.

Elliott knew about the available storefront and almost overnight, Norine moved in.

The Public Isolation Project was born.

As she literally X's off the 30 days she is spending cut off from the world, Norine chronicles her experience through her blog http://www.publicisolationproject.com/.

On the other side of the glass, Elliott is filming a documentary on their collaboration.

They are not anti-technology, Elliott says, just hoping to inspire more conversation about how everything from the internet to iPads are shaping people's lives.

"We are accessible 24/7," Elliott says. "Having a cell phone in your pocket you can be called or texted or video chatted at any point. With Facebook you are updating all time. You have friends on Facebook that you have never met, and they know more about what's going on in your life than your mother does who is not on Facebook."

Norine puts herself out there in a way that would make the most avid Twitterer or Facebook addict suffer an attack of shyness.

She eats, exercises and sleeps in full view of a busy Portland street. With a bathroom as her only private area, she is on almost constant display.

Norine's exhibitionism is extreme but hardly unique. Last month, the Chicago Museum of Science and Industry held a prize for a contestant to move to the museum for a month and become a living exhibit. Some 1,500 people applied.

In 2004, a Malaysian woman set a record for enduring 32 days in a glass box with hundreds of scorpions as company. In 2000, an actress living in a glass house in Chile inspired protests after taking public showers.

Elliott says the near total lack of privacy takes a toll on Norine.

We think we are being social on these gadgets.
--Cristin Norine

"Even on a Sunday when she just wants to take a break from this and have a cup of coffee," he said, "There's people coming up and knocking on the window. She just doesn't have any time for herself and I think that's hard."

Norine admits she didn't think she would make it past two weeks and has what she calls "the bad days."

On day 16 of her blog she writes, "Went to bed before 9 p.m. I wasn't feeling well and was too tired to write. ... I could really use some fresh air."

But she says having a routine has made the experiment more bearable.

"I get up, I make myself coffee and breakfast and get ready." Norine says. "Some days I'll be working out. Then I get on the computer and do my work -- I try to take a lunch break. I even have people who will come and have lunch with me on the other side of the window."

Norine e-mails and Skypes and chats online with anyone who wants to know more about her and the project. Until, she says, the overload sets in.

"I'll realize I need to take a break," Norine says. "And I'll go and do something that doesn't have to do with the computer and I can't turn it off. I still hear those dings and I get drawn back to the computer. I definitely have noticed since I have been here that I am addicted!"

The project ends on December 1 and Norine says she yearns for human interaction, a good meal and to hear live music.

Even if Norine can't wait to leave her self-imposed prison, she and the project have changed the surrounding neighborhood.

People who walk by her every day on their way to work stop for a few brief seconds to wave hello.

Day laborers awaiting work across the street watch her moving around the living space as if it were a favorite soap opera.

New friends pop by and hold notes against the window.

A woman who only gives her name as Debra watches Norine intently for several minutes before saying, "I know what it's like: I have an infant and I get stuck in my house all the time and I find myself so hungry for adult conversation."

Alrite, I get what they're trying to do with this - and I understand, but its different. I do think anytime you're hanging out IRL, putting the phone or laptop away is just common decency. I feel like all these social tools and gadgets though have only made our ADD mannerisms tangible. Society as a whole is not very present. We'll be sitting chatting with someone, and thinking about our laundry list, whether we left the coffee pot on or not - just everything but the here and the now. Maybe social media will act as the tipping point in our frustrations with the lack of quality in our human to human social interaction, and make us become more present as a whole.

#WhoKnows



Saturday
Nov062010

#NowWatching: Casino

 

I was just watching Casino and I have this like weird thing that when I walk away from movies, I literally feel like I am still in them. For reals, it's pretty intense. I just get so absorbed in the content ... clearly only awesome movies, but yeah! It happens none the less.

There was just a helicopter outside, and I'd totally be lying if I didn't just scream "THE FEDS!!!!" HAHAHAAHAHAAHAHAA such a nerd ...

I think in all fairness, I should explain to you exactly what it is that I do. For instance tomorrow morning I'll get up nice and early, take a walk down over to the bank and... walk in and see and, uh... if you don't have my money for me, I'll... crack your fuckin' head wide-open in front of everybody in the bank. And just about the time that I'm comin' out of jail, hopefully, you'll be coming out of your coma. And guess what? I'll split your fuckin' head open again. 'Cause I'm fuckin' stupid. I don't give a fuck about jail. That's my business. That's what I do.

#Awesome