#WTF: This is not @okcupid - I'm calling your bluff
Thursday, June 16, 2011 at 9:43AMYesterday I was introduced to the tumblr This is not OkCupid. It's this chickadee that is posting the emails dudes send to her from OKC.
I went through a bunch of her emails, and I have to call this chick's bluff. She's GOT to talk about oral sex or some sort of ... something sexually suggestive in her profile. Every other email is some dude asking to fuck her. I'm not mad at that, yes, you can get emails like that on OKC, but it's not that common - it is more of a one off deal.
I went through my inbox this morning, and out of the 192 active conversations I am having, there are less than 10% that are overtly sexually suggestive.
Actually ever since I changed my profile default to this ...
... these have been the majority of the messages I've been receiving ...
And then of course there's always these ...
Guys won't send you over the top sexual messages unless you have something for them to go off of in your profile. It's just not gonna happen!!!! I've been doing this for almost a year at this point!!!
Plus too, she's not posting her username so you can view the actual profile, and I highly highly highly doubt that she has a disclaimer in her profile that she is posting the results which makes it all superly duperly lame since she is posting their avatars with the messages.
I ain't hating on the chiquita banana, I think what she's doing is great! But supply full disclosure, otherwise you're being a lamer damer. And we all know, no one ... and I mean no one ... likes a lamer damer.
Well, except Debbie. But she'd never admit it.
Click here to check out the site for yourself.
I'm curious to know your thoughts. Do you think she should disclose to dudes that she is posting their messages?
#nerdsunite
Reader Comments (5)
I think you get what you put out there so in that sense definitely think she is putting out something of a sexual nature either in picts or in her profile. As for full disclosure it seems since she isn't posting who she is and a link to her actual profile I don't see a need for it. Unless of course she is outing the guys and putting a link up of their profiles. If so then that is definitely not ok. Otherwise she should keep doing what she is doing. However, I agree and I think there is something a bit fishy about all these sexual messages that guys keep sending to her...
It would be one thing if she posted a link to her profile, so we can see what she has on her ok cupid profile. The only way I would talk dirty like that is if a girl mostly talked about sex on her profile. What is she trying to prove here? If her profile is mostly about sex, then duh she is going to get alot of sexual messages sent to her.
i agree with you both. i think she should just show the link to her profile. say, here world - this profile here gets these type of messages. without it, you could say you're a toothless one legged hooker with a prosthetic leg named mary.
i think if you're going to do something like this in general, you need to have a disclaimer saying what you're doing, and you need to allow the readers to view your profile to keep it all fair.
#lamesauce
Just curious, do you have a disclaimer on all of yours?
I think she should, then again what are the ToC's on that site. Do they have anything that covers this.
yep!!!! http://www.okcupid.com/profile/jenfriel
i changed it though to the actual post where it says the findings. before i said do not message me if you don't want what you've sent to me to be public.