#NerdsUnite: The Exploration Tactic to Spice Up your Sex Life

<editorsnote> Nerds, meet my buddy Fabio. Yes. Real name. We're friends in the digispace and he owns and blogs at the fantastically awesome site LetsTalkSex.net. He's here today to share one of his latest and greatest tips on sex, and I only have one more thing left to say ... HIT IT FABIO!! </editorsnote>

#TalkNerdyToMeLover's Fabio Black

All right, so how did you go with the Diversion Tactic to Spice up Your Sex Life? How is your house looking? Is it a mess? Are the walls splattered white? :)

Did you take the diversion idea to the extreme and now you're reading this post from your computer in the oven? Good! You got it!

Now if you still have the Jack Sparrow hat I suggested you buy, hold on tight to it because today we are exploring new territories - soft, silky, round and sexy ones... Be prepared and bring your wellies in case it gets wet. Actually, you should hope it does ;)

Right, so what happens to the couple that follows the same routine over and over again? They become a bored couple. And sometimes even a cheating couple. Bring something new to the table, and I'm not suggesting you dye your teabags blonde, no no.

Spice up your sex life by surprising her - how?

Here's a little geography lesson:

I'm taking for granted that you've grasped the areas of the two pointed mountains and the dark cave between the two pinky lips. Now that you have the basics, it's time for you to move on and explore some other lands. All you need is curiosity, patience and calm (and a cheeky face ;)). No, you don't need your whip for now, pop that back in your belt.

Ready to start? Let's go! Look around her head, and you'll discover a piece of body called a neck... Kiss it gently, touch it, grab it (this is actually pretty relaxing and primitive), then roll her onto her back. Hey stop there!

Don't jump to the <del>ass</del> round silky hills too quickly! Lick her spine, bone by bone, kiss her underarms and so on. 

These unexplored areas will give her incredible sensations and pleasure, and will actually set you apart from the 90% of the guys who go straight to the golf hole.

Here's a secret: little powerful treasures are hidden in her joints.

Kiss and suck gently inside her elbows.

Touch slowly between her fingers.

And try behind her knees... (Do it gently though or she'll jump off the bed) 

Caress around her nipples.

Kiss her eyelids very softly.

Massage her nails with a toothbrush and then bite them! (I'm joking, don't do that... Even though it would probably be pretty funny).

Be a tourist! Instead of going straight to the main attractions, have a wonder around and if you get lost just ask for directions.

Also, if you're a traditionalist and don't want to touch new areas, or if a witch told you that you must follow the same usual foreplay routine for the next 13 years and 56 weeks straight or you'll die, that's alright, go for it <del>butt</del> but...

Touch the same areas in a different way:

Use ice cubes, feathers, credit cards or even simply the back of your hand. How many men do that? Pffffheeww 9% maybe?

Wanna be in this 9%? Follow the tips above. Wanna be in the 2% that does that and more effective exciting stuff as well?

You're wild, aren't you!

#thatisall

Fabio Black writes about sex, sex and sex. But not necessarily in that order. Read more about him here.