#NerdsUnite: The Diversion Tactic to Spice Up Your Sex Life

<editorsnote> Nerds, meet my buddy Fabio. Yes. Real name. We're friends in the digispace and he owns and blogs at the fantastically awesome site LetsTalkSex.net. He's here today to share one of his latest and greatest tips on sex, and I only have one more thing left to say ... HIT IT FABIO!! </editorsnote>

#TalkNerdyToMeLover's Fabio Black

Question: Do you yawn every time you get an erection? So bored that you see sex like a shift without a lunch break? Would you rather study the biology of a Trochodendron Nastae than take off your clothes and have sex?

Stop right there. Slap your face. Harder. Hardeeer! :)

Let's play with awareness.

When you do the same routine over and over again, you lose awareness. You go into autopilot mode. It's like if your mind says: "All right I am not needed here, the body is gonna do it, I can think about beer".

Have you ever driven your car to work and found out that you got to your destination without even realizing it? You don't remember the details of the trip, you don't remember what was going on around you because your mind was thinking about your colleague's mini skirt and your body was driving the car unconsciously.

Now, imagine that one day you jump in your car, you take the same street as usual, but that day someone decided to do a public protest in the streets against boring sex ;) and there is a pretty damn big road block.

You will need to take a different and unexplored route.

What would happen? I bet you'd be very careful of the streets around you, you'd be extremely aware of this brand new environment. The same thing happens with sex. If you keep following the same routine over and over, you'll lose awareness, your sensations become numb, and the sex gets boring.

Go on diversion for one day. Explore new territories (a Jack Sparrow hat will certainly help): have sex in different rooms. Be flexible and creative. Instead of using the kitchen to eat and the bedroom to have sex, reverse the roles. If you, like most men, don't care that much about the quality of your sex because you just want to dunk the biscuit, that's ok, but remember that women are more sensitive and they love these things.

Nature wants to protect you, it wants you to survive. So when you are in an unexplored situation, it makes you more alert, more sensitive, that means you'll feel new and stronger sensations.

Some of the things you can try are:

• Sex in the kitchen, on the table
• On the floor in the corridor
• Against the wall, or against the front door (the risk of being caught by the neighbors will surely make you more aware)
• In the bathroom in front of a mirror
• On the bed upside down
• In the fridge between the milk and the carrots :)
• On a chair in the lounge room and so on.

And you know what else is gonna happen? When you're having sex in new unexplored places your usual positions will feel slightly different and even if you won't notice it (especially if you're drunk) she will (even if she's drunk) and she'll love it. (Note: I highly recommend you to wear some shining armour when trying these techniques in order to protect your back from her scratches.)

So, explore new areas of your house, and have sex in as many corners as you can. Cover every square meter of your house with <del>sperm</del> love.

Getting greedy? Wanting more and more and better and better sex? Like boobs? All right! You are in the right place! Fabio Black writes about sex, boobs and sex. But without too much focus on the boobs. Click here for more information.

Have Fun!

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Fabio Black writes about sex, sex and sex. But not necessarily in that order. Read more about him here.