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<editorsnote> Hi, I'm Jen Friel, and we here at TNTML examine the lives of nerds outside of the basements and into the social media, and dating world.  We have over 75 peeps that write about their life in real time. (Real nerds, real time, real deal.) Sit back, relax, and enjoy some of the stories!! </editorsnote>

 

 

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Tuesday
Sep132011

#NerdsUnite: Hold Up, Don't Tweet This!  

<editorsnote> Nerds, meet Mark. I actually went to high school with this duderino, and he's super rad. Like for real rad - we had junior year math together, and he might not admit it - but he's pretty smart. He's going through some shizzy shiznat right now, and would like to talk about it ... HIT IT MARK!!  </editorsnote>

#TalkNerdyToMeLover's Mark Lindquist

My entire life I have held myself back and watched other people less fortunate/talented/motivated etc. rocket past me and achieve their dreams while I sat around with my excuses justifying why I couldn’t do it.  

WELL I AM HERE TO TELL YOU I AM COMING OUT OF MY SHELL!! A coming out party of a different kind….. if you will.  

I have waited for that chance to shine, to find that groove to follow, to catch a glimpse of an opening for my success. Now the door has opened and I am stepping in with confidence. It’s such a great time to be me because I am participating in the events that will create the lifestyle I want to have.

I can literally feel success right around the corner and the truth is that I have become good at being me.  If you can feel electricity running through these words it’s because I have stumbled onto a secret and just like any sales promotion will tell you, I’m here to give you the goods……. for free.

So what is stopping you from achieving the lifestyle you dream of?  Could it be that you aren’t using your energy efficiently? When information that excites and shocks us comes rocketing towards our digital social space we have a tendency to pass it along, re-tweet, and re-post before it has a chance to have a positive lasting impact. Why would we willingly participate in a virtual game of hot potato? What are we actually doing????? We are giving that energy away before we can use it for ourselves!!

The problem with passing along a hot tweet-izzle or scintillating photo is that we are stamping it with our approval or disapproval and unknowingly sending away a piece of our energy with it. It’s all about managing inflow versus out flow and I don’t know about you, but I lose enough energy just sitting in traffic.

Well this time why not try something different? Try holding that message in before sending it to your tweetable peeps and facebooking faces.  It even works well after an awesome night out. If you override your instinct to tweet and fb the details of an incredible night on the dance floor you can harness your energy for the next time and unleash a fury of dance moves, the likes of which the world has yet to see.  
Why should anyone do that? It boosts your confidence and allows for the channeling of that energy.  It’s easy to pass a hot potato to the next person because it’s hot. The task becomes more difficult when you try to hold in and transmute the energy for your own personal use. If something can make you immediately act, then there is real power behind it. Tap into that power and become proactive rather than a passive receiver of information and….  

With so many things to on the internet waiting to misguide and mislead us, it’s very important to sit on the information we take in. In doing so the truth will remain and the rest will fall away.  

So instead of immediately forwarding this, take a moment to center yourself…… Hold this message in awareness. What can you take from it? Maybe you can channel some of the energy and finish that project you have put off or you could talk to someone whose spirits could use some uplifting. At that point if it’s still worthy enough to send into the cloud of confusion then fire away.  I did in order to get this message to you, but only after contemplating this:  Life is reflective.  In order to bring in and attract the lifestyle I am looking for, I have to give out willingly to yours.

 

#nerdsunite

Wednesday
Jan122011

Happy Birthday, Mark!!

DUUUDDESSS ... we've got a birthday in the hizzy ... that's um, slang for house. Just incase you didn't know. Cause, I can be ghetto like that. Actually, I'm not ghetto at all. I'm white. Very white. So white you could put me in grater and be completely convinced it is snowing. Am I still talking? Shut up Jen ...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARK!!!

 

Yep, it's a good day. For reals, Mark and I had math class together in my junior year of high school. Super cool mofo. He was pretty quiet then, but fortunately has started to come out of his shell a bit. I don't think he has recognized that I want to Pythagorean his theorem ... but I'll let him own it first. HAHA!! Happy Freaking Birthday buddy!! Really really really appreciate you round these parts. And now, in honor of your birthday, I have a gift for you ...

xoxo #nerdsunite

Saturday
Oct092010

She Talked #Nerdy To Me

#TalkNerdyToMeLover's Mark Lindquist

 

As some of you nerds may know we are sometimes picked on or singled out because we are different.  The simplest conclusion I came to was that there was something wrong with me.  I had never experienced this more than when I moved to a new high school my junior year.  My differences stuck out like a peppered moth in one of H.B.D. Kettlewell’s experiments.  If you haven’t heard of him, he conducted experiments in the 1950’s to determine whether the drastic population decline of certain colored peppered moths were a result of adaptations to the changing environment.  He concluded that the moths had adapted to their changing environment. http://www.truthinscience.org.uk/site/content/view/127/65/ Bonus points to those of you who knew that his experiments have since been proven to be flawed : )

 

While catching up on Facebook Chat with former classmate and TNTML founder Jen Friel, I mentioned that I was falling short of the successes I desire.  I began to point the finger at my past when she mentioned that SHE played the victim mentality for 24 years and finally made a decision to change it.  Jen set out on a quest for awesomeness and in ten months slayed her evil dragon and told me I could too.  At this point in the conversation my mind was scrambling for the words to describe just how awful my experience was and how she couldn’t possibly understand. 

 

As if she read my mind she said “Dude we’ve all been through shit… so what, it was the past.  It doesn’t matter what it was, you still have a problem if it affects you.  I made a conscious effort to stop and it changed my life.  I realized I had to get over myself.” 

 

I fell back in my chair with a stunned look on my face.  How could I have missed something so blindingly obvious?  Like a light colored peppered moth on a dark tree the victim mentality is making me an easy target.   

 

Because Talk Nerdy To Me Lover is a place where I can blend in, my goal is to make Jen a custom t-shirt.  The shirt will be black with a white colored peppered moth on the front.  On the back will be a dark one blending into it’s surroundings.  On the front it will say Before Talk Nerdy To Me Lover and on the back it will simply say After.

 

Click here to send Mark some nerdy lovin on The Facebook.