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<editorsnote> Hi, I'm Jen Friel, and we here at TNTML examine the lives of nerds outside of the basements and into the social media, and dating world.  We have over 75 peeps that write about their life in real time. (Real nerds, real time, real deal.) Sit back, relax, and enjoy some of the stories!! </editorsnote>

 

 

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Monday
Dec272010

The definition of #NerdsUnite

 

*waves* hey guys - yep ... I've been in Florida for a few weeks, but I head back to LA tomorrow afternoon. Normally I'd publish like mad where I am - but I was just in holiday mode and wanted to kick it with the fam. That being said though, if I am EVVERRRRR anywhere near you guys and you wanna hang - totally drop me a tweet @JenFriel - or message on Facebook: Facebook.com/jenfriel

I'd love love love to get a chance to hang out with as many of you as possible and thank you for helping this site become what it is today. For reals, I'm still broke for another couple of weeks- so coffee would have to be on you haha, but I'm a cheap tall drip room for cream. I can of course off set the cost of coffee for any social media trending web tips - whatevs. You all know my deal ... I'm preaching to the choir.

All I have in this world is time. You guys changed my life, so you absolutely NEVER bother me in asking to chill. Here's my Foursquare: Foursquare.com/jenfriel that maps out where I hang out, so come say hi. Do me a favor though, just drop me a tweet before you come by to make sure I'm going to be there for awhile. I'd hate for someone to show up somewhere and me leave beforehand.

Cool beans! Look forward to meeting you tomorrow Nick, and showing you some @Spirithoods action!! RAWRRRR!!!

#nerdsunite

Saturday
Dec252010

#Category: YAY LIFE!!

 

DUDE!!! He totally texted me back saying he'd love to go out on a date! Woahh ... I have such a crush on this guy. We've been friends for years and years and years ... and he's incredibly nerdy ... we just reconnected when he came to my birthday ... wow ... im totally blushing ... stop being such a chick Jen. Stop being such a chick. Be more like the dude, be more like the dude ... totally could use one of these ...

*whew* MUCH BETTER!! Font is now biggeerrr!!

I only have one thing left to say ...

HIT IT POINTER SISTERS!!!!!!

#nerdsunite

 

Wednesday
Dec222010

@Foursquare offers Android update with photo sharing

OMG OMG OMG!!! YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

 

The photo sharing option on checkin is now available for the Droidddddd!!!! Greatest news like ever schmever mc-weather for a lifecaster. Dude, they've needed this for long it's like re-dic! Now ... it has arrived!!

1. Go to the market app on your Droid.

2. Search for FourSquare.

3. Click update.

4. Wait 5.7 seconds. Lick your toe. Touch your nose. 

5. Repeat step 4

Am I still talking ?? Shut up Jen ...

#ENJOY

Thx for the heads up Daniel!!


Wednesday
Dec222010

They're Talking Nerdy Baby: #NerdsUnite

Looky, looky, the email I just got ... it says AND I QUOTE ...

 

Hey Jen,

First off, I want to say that I think your story is amazing.  It truly is an innovative idea that be copied (or at least attempted) for years to come.  Way to blaze the trail for fellow nerd/marketing hybrid robots.  Thank you.

About me:

My name is XXXXXXX. 

Like your story's beginning, I am approaching my 25th birthday (Monday), also known as my quarter-life crisis.   I have been working from my laptop here in San Diego for almost every day over the last 15 months.  The work is great, the flexibility is awesome, but going to different coffee shops as getting my scene change fix just hasn't been cutting it.  I am desperately seeking an adventure. 

A fellow friend going through a life stalemate (will soon be turning 30 and just got laid off), is planning to do hike the Appalachian trail this spring/summer. 

I'm not sure how familiar you are with the trail, but basically it's a 5 month hike from Georgia to Maine.  I've decided to join him.

As someone who's been camping a total of two times in my 25 years, the experience should certainly be that adventure that I'm seeking.  I tell all my friends I'm doing it because I want to grow a beard.  The sad part is I'm only half joking.

To the point:

Funding is a problem.  Apparently escaping society is way more expensive than one would think.  I was under the assumption we could just survive off of berries and honeycomb on the trail.  Imagine my heartbreak when I was informed it doesn't work that way.  Tents are way too expensive.  Apparently REI is the outdoorsman Gucci.

I come to you, because your story has made it apparent that you are the pre-eminent guru in social media based sponsorship. 

Questions:

Do you have any suggestions on places to start to ask for funding?

What sort of commitment do the companies require in exchange for product/service?  (Being in the woods may make Twittering difficult at times)

Do you have any creative ideas to garner a businesses interest in this particular regard?

Do you like e-mails that drag on entirely way too long?

Thanks for your time Jen.  It really means a lot.

Best,


XXXXXX

 

Wow, first off - thank you. I really really really appreciate the email, these things keep me going. Second of all, you have to understand when I started, I had no idea where it was going to go. I didn't intend initially for it to go this far; I just wanted to be happy and continually do things I enjoyed doing. Giving up everything I owned was easy for me, as back in 2007 - I had lost everything that I had owned in a massive cockroach infestation. YAYYYY urban living!! That was just my first step - give it all up again for a fresh start and to be able to adopt a fresh perspective on things so I could figure out what I needed. Necessity is a funny thing, we all think we need a lot - but that is just the human brain wanting to tell us to horde horde horde. What you require most for an adventure like the one you are describing is a shift in consciousness. I did a LOT of soul searching, and questioned a LOT about what life really is, versus dealing with the people that are just trying to sell us stuff. I'd suggest your first step is to just start there, before approaching your funding. What you think you need versus what you ACTUALLY need are two VERY different things.

Then, I'd suggest not writing a business plan or anything for sponsorship - those are a total joke now a days, just rally your friends together to support your blog. Create a site (tumblr is great! or blogspot - and both are free. Just secure $10 for the domain, way easier to direct the traffic), with an About Us page outlining exactly what you are going to do, and document your search for funding in real time. People are inspired by action, and it also freaks people out when you do it so publicly ... the ones that are going to bite, bite faster once they think someone else can snatch you up. The majority of things sponsors will look at are Facebook likes, and Twitter followers. I almost never even get asked for analytics anymore - the followers and likes are WAY more important to these people now a days. When you infultrate someone's social media stream, you're catching them in a more passive, but incredibly effective way as it is a constant contact approach. They have to actively click unfollow or unlike to make you go away versus just not clicking on your page which oh yeah! they have to be reminded to visit anyway.

Once you get some of your friends on board, just start blogging - updating people on your status etc. For your twitter page, I'd suggest building the brand around your own personal twitter as its just easier to keep updates. For TNTML, I just kept @JenFriel as the main twitter contact. I couldn't bother updating a main "brand page" in addition to my personal, its such a total waste of energy. Just keep it real.

Kickstarter.com is also AMMMAAZINNGG!! A lot of my friends have had luck on there to raise funding. Maybe you could run a campaign on there and streamline it as well on the website. Whatever you wanna do! Up to you!

Remember, "When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it."

 

We look for stories like this in social media. We all WANT to help. The more honest and humble you are with your story, the more people will just fall from the sky offering to help. It is amazing.

Furthermore, I find that the more you are willing to take risks in even offering for people to help, the faster the project in general grows as those that have helped take ownership of your story as well. Greatest time to be alive evvveerrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! Hands down.

As far as what companies ask for in return for sponsorship, that's up to you. I don't accept any terms. I'm kinda a nazi on it as I am for nothing but unapologetic awesomeness. I don't accept money, so I won't accept bullshit. If I like your product, I'll talk about it - if I don't I won't. I'm not a corporate puppet, I'm just someone who wants to live life and document it as fully as possible. So that's totes mcgotes up to you amigo! Just be careful, as some of those companies will eat you alive. I'd just tell them that you'll integrate the product into your life as much as possible. Period. End of Sentence. These people are usually so excited to have ANNYYY involvement in social media that you'll at least have some wiggle room to try some stuff out.

All my love, and all my heart dear friend on your adventure. I can't WAIITTTTT to hear how it goes! And lemme know when you get all your pages established, I'll totally like 'em and suggest 'em to my friends.

xoxoxo #nerdsunite

 

Tuesday
Nov302010

They're Talking Nerdy Baby: #NerdsUnite

 

@BenParr cracks me up. Literally at the stroke of midnight on Thanksgiving, he wasn't all excited about Black Friday ... oh no ... Ben couldn't wait to officially blast Christmas music all through his house. HAHA!!

Kills me. Don't get me wrong, I dig it too ... but meh ... eh ... eh ... Not my thing. But hey, man! More power to yaaa!! In fact, in honor of the awesomeness that just is Ben Parr ... I will in fact listen to it with ya!

Here we go ... Ready ...

Headphones in.

Check.

Pulling up the video.

Check.

Pressing play ....

Waiting to load ....

Dancing.

Make my wish come true! All I want for Christmasss is yooouuu!!!!

Thanks @BenParr!!! =) =) =)

Here's to hoping I'm on Santa's naughty list this year .... mmm that sounds yummmmyyyyy!!

#NerdsUnite