#NerdsUnite: Meet @meowmistidawn

A crazy, weird, and awesome set of scenarios brings us our latest contributor, @meowmistidawn! Met this chick on Twitter through a mutual friend, and a love of Spirithoods - grabbed a drink - now we're totes besties.

For reals! She's super super super candid, and totally keeps it real.

This chick is rad, and clearly considering her choice of lifestyle has some interesting stories - and oh, oh, oh, she's also a total nerd. And not just cause it's cool - she's a total gamer that gets annoyed when she has to hit pause to bone on camera for a minute. Without further adieu, nerds I bring you Misti - HIT IT!

Sophmore year of high school

A little bit may have changed on the exterior, but don't let it fool you.

Hi. Nice to meet you. My name is Misti Dawn. Yeap. Thats my real name. I will be here to entertain you weekly. I am skilled in the fine art of talking nerdy to my lovers. What makes me so qualified you might ask, well perhaps it is my career choice. See, I'm not just genetically a nerd but like all true nerds I love sexuality so after literally coming out of my fat awkward girl shell I ventured off in to the adult industry. Long story short of how I got in to it, I just wanted to explore my sexuality while I was in college, and being from Kentucky that exploration wasn't really encouraged. So I packed up and moved out west to chase dreams of nerd love and sex.

I thought I'd use this first entry as an introduction snip so in future blogs the dots will connect. My porn side is easy to find out about, obviously the internet exist so you can find a lot "cough" about me and even see me. But let me back up to my nerdy roots. I grew up an only child with my mother and mema (southern for grandma) in Kentucky. My mother owned a video store thus I think my nerd-itis started here. I am more of the "video game" nerd and with my mother having the video store I had endless access to any console and any game and a unsurpassable supply of B horror movies. Oh Full Moon Video.... It was heaven. Of course I love comics, RPGs, and crafts but my nerd drug of choice has always been: Video games. And my first girl crush, Lara Croft started at this time as well. Might be safe to say Lara made me think about sexuality. Video games made me sexy? Then middle school, high school, college. I was a great student, active in clubs, in band, oh and fat. The usually nerd story.

If you have any further questions about my upbringing feel free to ask via comment.... but now I venture off in to tell you about being a nerdy gal in porn.....

First off, Ive discovered many girls in porn are now claiming to be "nerds". Odd how being a nerd has become cool.  So i'm always next to these beautiful women claiming to be in to the same things I am. Sounds like heaven right? Smart beautiful nerds! Nope... most of them are a farce.  Its like being in a high school sitcom and the cool clique has started doing what you've always done and taking all the credit. Grrr...  But i have noticed the fan base i've gained has been legit nerds. Nerds i've looked up to actually, and I find they tend to like me for me which is kind of strange being in an industry sold solely on looks not wit. But times they are a changing. With social media becoming a part of every day life, a sense of intimacy comes in a different way than what porn used to be. Personal Interactions -and nerds have this social media thing down pat. And who buys porn? (Not many people anymore thank you internet) People who collect things.... who collect things? NERDS! So some how the stars aligned and nerdy pornstar and porn collecting nerds have met and are now making a symbiotic relationship. Sadly porn as an industry hasn't quite caught on to this concept, how far reaching social media actually effects sales. For example when porn parodies are made of our favorite comics yet all of the stars of the porn don't resembling the characters at all or even worse never even heard of the comic. For example, my favorite comic ever, Spiderman was recently turned in to a porn. The girl who played Mary Jane Watson had brown hair and brown eyes and only got casted due to being a contract girl with a big company and the guy who played Harry Osborn did not even know who Harry was. I don't know about you but as a nerd at heart, this kills my nerd boner for wanting to watch these movies.

Well, that is my short rant and intro. From here on in I will be guiding you through my every day life. Days on set. Dating. Traveling to conventions. and of course.... The large amount of sexual interactions I have daily.

Nerdily Yours,

Misti Dawn

Twitter.com/MeowMistiDawn
Facebook.com/MistiMeowDawn

#nerdsunite

Pick Up Line O'El Dia

Uh, do you like come here often, huh huh. I said "come." 

Today, I stopped to smell the #roses

Er, lilacs er, something. WTF do I look like to you? A horticulturist?? No bueno.

Either way, I am so not mad at the fact that I currently cannot drive my vehicle - because I get to experience little pockets of awesomeness, like this flower patch I found today. Seriously! This right here, is in the HEART of Hollywood. Like gritty, icky, Hollywood. BAM! Right here - this.

The colors caught my eye initially. I wanted to start doing the back-stroke in the sea of green and purple reflecting so well off the blue and white. *sigh*

Breathtaking.

#thatisall

Weird Al Says ... #WTF?!

Rats may not have gallbladders or tonsils, but they are all born with bellybuttons.

This has been a moment of ... WTF?!

Understanding How to Shift the #Power to Relational Equality

 #TalkNerdyToMeLover's Jordan Harbinger

A man can be doing his own thing, comfortable in his own skin and then a relational element such as a Playboy model can walk in the room and his behavior changes; his energy and power shifts. This is because of his relationship to her SOCIAL POWER; the illusion, the mask. If he had a relationship with her suppressed alpha NATURE instead of social adaptation, then he would start getting places with women consistently. Sex is a byproduct of a pre-existing relationship, NOT right upfront with women.
 The equation CAN be balanced without being her social equal (which isn’t even sexual).

The single most important thing for men who want to become bona fide ladies’ men is simply not to be thrown off in relation to this power. It’s to accept and represent that he really is her equal and to communicate it. He has to balance out his relationship to her power and represent it behaviorally.
 This is what women want and are desperately lacking in their options today; real men who can be themselves around them.

Yes, this ‘relational equality’ is by far the #1 thing; more important than his looks, social status, pick-up lines, scripts, personality or anything else.  It’s the ability to maintain your behavior around other elements and people of power.  It’s not about being nervous, shifting your agenda, and creepily acting nice or paying for her attention to ‘get somewhere’ with her.  It’s to be yourself but in relation to the most powerful and beautiful people. This rare trait will get you more action than any seduction technique and it’s a RELIEF to women to trust you so THEY can open up.  You have to have this power conditioned because it doesn’t start with your ‘acting’ around her; she already knows. It’s before, during, and after your communication with her. They’re judging you fast when you approach.

Once you achieve relational equality and your energy or physiology isn’t thrown off around the hottest woman in the world, it will open the doors to unlimited pussy, love, affection, joy, memories, and shared experiences with other people of power.  Those men who possess this relational equality (ie. naturals and other people of behavioral power) never have to worry about their love life and have all kinds of women chasing after them with just a little bit of proactive effort.  They don’t have fear of women or of other powerful people. They can approach, attract, meet and communicate instantly with women. Then, other levels of communication can flourish because the woman is receptive.

Relationships of mutual trust can actually start instead of being prevented. Women instantly trust my energy because it doesn’t waver in relation to them. It opens the doors. I am the rock and this one quality has yielded untold results with women in the last 3 years.  Why? Because I have achieved the alpha male trait of relational equality.

How to do it? 2 words: relational mastery.

So, to have the results with women and in life that you dream of, this relational equality is the single most important ‘tool’ you can have; being the behavioral equal to other people or sources of power because THEN a win/win interdependent relationship can start.

Losers with women have disempowered relationships and beliefs. They are predictably the conditioned response to the stimulus of social alpha or inner alpha women instead of being independent and valuable as their equals.  After all, everything is relational anyways and if we’re not ‘aware’, then we’re ‘ignorant’. It’s time to become aware of behavioral relational dynamics to accelerate your real game because otherwise you’d be going blind into the pits.

Women are just more powerful and looking for their equal in power with the men in their life. Isn’t it time to become powerful and be the man you were supposed to be? Countless women are waiting.  But if you’re not dealing with energy and nature and instead focusing on what most of seduction does; social tactics and inner game..it’s going to take a long time to ever achieve the consistency someone like me does with women. That’s because women now have the social and inner power right upfront so you’re left to struggle balancing it out on the 6% of interpersonal and social dynamics.

So, unless the man can truly be centered in himself in relation to all of this social value which he believes is sexuality, there’s going to be a lot more angst, frustration and failure with women. And a LOT of focusing on the skillsets that seem to be where it’s at but actually matter the least.  And, in the mind of man; until there is a balance in his relationship to all female power (before he approaches), the fear is going to be there in the approach because he is haphazardly out of control in relation to her social value and power.

She knows what he wants..it doesn’t matter how he calibrates because his is weak compared to her power and chasing the wrong thing but a woman will never tell a man this. Remember, HE’S SUPPOSED TO KNOW and he doesn’t, it’s not the man for her.  He is not powerful, he is not her equal and thus no matter what pick-up lines, training or scripts he runs, it’s really child’s play. She’ll wait until that powerful man who truly respects her as an equal (in energy) comes along and she’ll be open to him even if he has many other lacking traits.

The fact that I have high value traits across the board on top of relational equality = very effective with attraction and ‘dating’. I’ve got countless stories and I don’t really go for average looking women.  Women fall for bad boys because they have relational equality first and foremost. They also have high natural value which can bring out her own sexuality in relation to HIM. And they’ll do this in spite of his other traits.  Fortunately, now there is great opportunity for real, balanced men that women are looking for…we just have to step up and accept our power to truly BE the equal of women (instead of ie. emulating brute jerk behavior).

This seems impossible when viewed socially because a million men would sleep with her over you. That’s why understanding relational dynamics (relational mastery) and harnessing your nature and energy as a man are more than enough to be the answer to what women go for and desire. Getting physical is the standard.  The value of nature and energy is far greater than your inner game.

With enough physiological congruency (meaning BEHAVIOR, not acting), it doesn’t matter what you say. Yet if you’re lacking the behavioral power the women you approach have, you’re stuck to making up with weaker verbal and social communication where can easily reject you and aren’t attracted.  That’s why there is so much focus on it in the seduction and dating community.  And unfortunately, most men continue to logically look at what ’seems’ to be the thing to do and many dating experts will keep promoting the exact same tactics that will keep selling but don’t necessarily work; what to say, ‘how’ to approach, self-affirmations (that seem like a lie to his brain), ‘acting’ techniques, etc.  You will have to change your beliefs and then condition yourself into a more natural reality and I show guys exactly how to do it.

This is how you become behaviorally powerful and comfortable in your own skin around the women you want and then the magic happens.  It’s when you have a physiological relationship with the alpha nature of women that you too can have insane success with women. This will not happen by anything you do in First World life by default. Even the seduction community is so far off from this. I would daresay say that Zan is the only one that comes close to what I’m talking about. It’s a different direction (yet with masculine POWER) that yields the results men and women are looking for.  I call it ‘Natural Game Dating’ and I teach ‘how’ to achieve this behavioral power.

You have to build and develop a relationship with nature and energy itself to become a true rockstar (ie. without the social status and despite your level of inner game). When you have that confident, stronger (natural) reality (as I do) around women, you become fearless, comfortable, powerful, respected, insatiable, admired, lusted after, loved and chased.The dream can become a reality and the faster you understand that the sexuality of women is nothing like you ever thought, the more results you will have with women and more power to bring out their repressed sexuality smoothly and naturally.

If you liked this post, check out this episode: Episode #103 Value Revisited Part 1

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