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Thursday
Dec232010

Fun with #OkCupid: If you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all

Looky looky the IM I just got on OKC ...

 

He logged off before I had a chance to actually talk to the el duderino, but hear me out ... I'm not trying to be anyone. I didn't even really know what the hell I was getting myself into when I started this site. The only conscious decision I made in the last year is to continually do things that felt good. Seriously, it was that simple. Feels good - doesn't feel good. I love love love tech, I love being a goof - and furthermore, I love being able to talk to people all around the world and relate to them on incredibly personal levels. Dude, how amazing was it when we were all watching the eclipse? Such a trip!!

That being said, this is lifecasting. This is a completely sustainable existence because of the fact that you are able to adapt with the changes as they occur. Nothing is set in stone, just like it isn't in life. It's not journalism, its not a performance piece - its just being, and I dig it. I have NOOOOOOOOOOO doubt that in 2011 a lot of what I do will have to change because of certain scenarios, and that's rad! Let it! Mama didn't raise no fool. In the meantime, I'm just having fun. Life is lived in the moment, and I have faith in the fact that I will figure out any challenge as it chooses to present itself.

Gotta have faith!!!

#nerdsunite

 

Tuesday
Dec212010

Fun with #OkCupid: What a girl wants ...

Looky looky the conversation I just had on OKCupid ...

 

I don't actually read a single OKC profile, until I've actually chatted with the person. Lame-o I know. But to catch a chick's attention on OKC, you need to tell your lifestory in pictures.

Seriously, again, every chick on a dating site is CONSTANTLY the hottest chick at the bar, and gets an absurd amount of mail everyday just because of the fact that she is on the damn site. Get over it men, you're going to have to put some work into it! Go out, grab a friend - do some cool stuff, and take some cool pics!!! I am totally attracted to bad boys. Again, that might just be me ... but if you look like a badass, I am totally going to message you. Otherwise, pass. This guy honestly had a GREAT profile, but just way too safe for me. I LOVE what I do every.single.day. and get so much excitement out of it. If that excitement can't be extended to my significant other, then its just not gonna happen.

Want some more OKC dating tips? Check this out!

#nerdsunite

Agree? Disagree? Send me a tweet: @JenFriel

 

Saturday
Dec182010

Fun with #OkCupid: Sexy time with Bob Barker

looky looky the conversation I am having on OKC ... 

 

hmmm well, thanks mate! but i was totally busting your chops. no, i didnt have sex with bob barker - but I guess that would bring a whole new meaning to "cum on down ... " =)

Click here to message me on OKCupid

Friday
Dec172010

Fun with #OkCupid: The most ADD email I have ever read

Looky looky the email I just got on OKC ...

 

2 of the trophies are from dance ... 2 are from academics ... and 1 is from sales.

Not from LA ... Connecticut, but have been living in LA for almost 7 years.

Yep, I was on the price is right in March of 2005. And yes ... I won, and made it all the way to the showcase showdown. FYI, the wheel is a LOT heavier than it looks.

There is no mystery about me, I just am. I find the honesty to be freeing and that freedom inspires the creativity inside my noggin.

Dude, I don't know if we could ever date. For reals ... if a squirrel walked by with something shiny we'd both self destruct. HAHAH! Thanks for the email though, made my night.

Click here to send me a message on OKC

*SQUIRREL*


Sunday
Dec122010

Fun with #OkCupid: My night with a virgin

Alrite, so I posted on this dude a little while back that I found absolutely fascinating. He's an incredibly incredibly incredibly attractive 26 year old virgin. We've been back and forth for a while, but tonight I finally got to sit down with him and ask him a few questions ... please note, I cut out part of his sn just due to the candid nature of the discussion. looky looky ...

 

Yep.  That just happened ...